Love

“Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so love the people who treat you right and forget the ones that don’t and believe that everything happens for a reason If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be easy, they just promised it would be worth it." 

-- Anonymous

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What is Love? While I realize that this comes on Valentines day. Don’t worry, this has no connection to the nick-name, single awareness day. 

I know for many Love is defined in the TV shows, the dramatic love stories in novels... I believe in many of our minds, love has been defined by how much someone else loves us individually… Ponder this, we are loved when we show love.

I’ve been through many break downs, as I’m sure all of us have in our ways, where I miss days where I felt Love. When I look at those time, The reason I felt so much love was because I shared it with everyone. This quote might not be perfect, the statement “Life is too short… Love…!!” This short post come to all those that are feeling lost, confused or un-loved. Reach out, ask someone for directions, and love those you come in contact with. You never know the ripple effect you will start.

The Beginning of Change

Very recently, I've decided to re-evaluate my goals and dedications. I went to a karate leadership conference where we were asked to memorize a statement of what a leader is. "A leader is someone who has the ability, confidence and dependability to influence their environment, including others, in a positive manner." I realized in my own life that I have been blessed with ability and confidence but have not been as dependable as I thought I should be. As I've been pondering this, a notion was brought to my attention in church. I needed to re-evaluate my dedications. Which brings me to open this blog, my thoughts of life. 


My main purpose of this blog will be to research important aspects in my life and share my findings to improve my life.


What are our most important dedications in life? I first start with what is the definition to dedicated. One definition is a person devoted to a task or purpose; having single-minded loyalty (giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution)
 or integrity (the state of being whole and undivided). I loved the definition of integrity, being undivided. I know that I have divided my dedication. I love to learn and have dedicated myself to learn a new language, better develop my skill at karate, and pursue my love of riding. After finding these definitions, I have come to the realization that I may be splitting myself and spreading myself too thin. 


However, where is my time being split? Too much of my time is taken lounging on a couch letting a story be told through television. I know that it is something that can be changed, I've experienced it. At one time, I had decided to cut it out of my life, I lasted all of 2 weeks. In those two weeks I found my mind was awakened!! I could think clearly, comprehend better the language I was striving to learn and retain more skill of karate. I would ask, how many hours do you spend watching someone else's creative thoughts fill your mind? I'm saying that it has to go completely, however it is something that should be controlled. With this I've decided to open my mind again to discovery of my own imagination. Re-dedicate myself to learning.


I would love to hear thoughts or goals that you would like to share.